Ya’ll will probably get tired of me talking about this book Atomic Habits by James Clear, but when I’m still thinking about a book days even weeks later I know it’s spoken to me. It’s Saturday morning at 6:30 am and I woke with the idea to write this blog post. This is not something I do. Mornings are quiet time for me to drink coffee and read. So for me to hop up, make my bed, get my mug of broth (ever since my cold last week coffee tastes disgusting and broth is heaven), and sit down to start writing…that is a big deal.
What do I mean by planning vs. movement? Planning is the preparation to do something and it can be and feel like movement…until it’s not. Planning can be used to procrastinate. And as my mother can attest…I am the queen of procrastination. When Mr. Clear said this, my brain went “Ding Ding Ding Ding…we have a winner!” And that’s when situations and little habits I have came flooding to me. What I thought I was doing was moving forward when in fact I was just procrastination planning. I knew on some level that I wasn’t following through on my plans. Lack of execution, I thought.
Not to say some planning isn’t movement because sometimes you have to plan to move forward for a project. You should write a business plan for example…but that is movement in and of itself because it’s actually helping you in your business.
Here’s my example of procrastination planning…I want to do an audit of my finances. Ok let me rephrase that…I need to do an audit of my finances. I don’t really want to cuz it’s not my jam…but it needs to be done. So I’ve told myself, when I get my desk all cleaned up I’ll sit down and do it. Guess what is still a mess. Because if I cleaned my desk, I’d have to do the financial audit.
I also think I need to “pretty” something up before doing it. So if I need to make a note that is on the wall by my door that tells me to walk everyday…it becomes a full blown craft project…in my head…that I need fancy appear, stickers, a fancy font and a laminating machine. So guess what…the note doesn’t get written and I don’t walk.
You think I’m joking and I’m not…these are two things I do. I know I do them. I own it.
So now to take this epiphany and make it work for me. I am still in the early stages and I’m sure I haven’t unearthed all of my procrastination planning but at least I’m now aware of it.
Guess what I’m doing this weekend? No not cleaning my desk…nope I’m doing a financial audit. Wish me luck!
Those of you who know me may think the title of this post may be a little odd. But hear me out. Because my florist business is a side hustle and not my daytime job, I have a very hard time saying “I’m a Florist” when someone asks what I do for work. I clearly state the company I work for and what I do, but then there is this awkward moment on how to approach my side hustle. To be honest, since it is my side hustle, I never knew if I could actually state that I am a florist. I mean, I went to classes and received a certificate stating that I’m a florist. So why can’t I say it?
Recently, I realized this about myself…how I shelved that part of me. Self promotion not being a strong suit of mine didn’t help the matter either. However I have acknowledged it and have promised myself to do better. Then today, I started a new book (via Audible) called Atomic Habits by James Clear. One of the many eye-opening things he states is that you have to identify and basically own the person you want to be. Totally generalizing what was said, but it’s the gist of it (or what I took away from it). Isn’t it ironical (I know that’s not the correct word), that I had just been thinking this and now here was this expert telling me the same thing…reinforcing that my thoughts were correct. (Side note: I highly recommend the book Atomic Habits. As I stated, I just started it today, but already I’ve gotten alot of great ideas and new ways of changing habits.)
So this is me stating it…I AM A FLORIST!!!
Now that I’ve made that statement…come visit my social media sites (my attempt at self promotion). Like, share, or send me an email just to say “hi”! Even better…tell me who you are!!!
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